Background: My sister who is 43 years old with 2 kids (2 boys 6 and 17 years old) is going through a divorce. They’ve been separated 2-3months. She is adamant that she wants to be married within 6 months after her divorce. I’ve suggested that she wait a while and gather her thoughts properly. Make friendships and don’t be too hurried to get involved yet. She should enjoy her independence. But she feels very lonely and have started dating again recently. One is a new man, a married man in his early 50’s and another is with an ex boyfriend (not lovers but someone she knew in her teens and have become part of a group of friends of her husband and her.),, this guy is also separated from his wife but not yet divorced. She wants to know her chances in the “romance” department and be married by year end.
I thought perhaps my sister was not being grounded and that feelings and facts are often opposite. Fact usually belong to the empire of rational thinking and do not regard wishes, hopes and beliefs. Before she set herself up for big disappointment and to know about her possibilities she have to see both and I thought it best for her to know the truth with the help of the Gypsy Cards using The Mind and Heart Spread-Feelings & Facts.
1st Row: Inquirer’s thoughts (words of the mind/Facts): The Lover and The Widower card shows that she acknowledge the feeling of sadness of having to go through the divorce from her husband after 18 years of marriage. She felt angry and frustrated (Anger card) in the marriage hence the divorce which she initiated. She is aware that her marriage has brought great disappointment to her that in her mind she knows that she’ll not change her mind and that she definitely want her divorce from her husband (Officer card). She is not in the best state of affair. She is angry, disappointed and bitter. A person of much resentment in her right now. – THIS IS THE FACT
2nd Row: Inquirer’s feelings (words of the heart):The Marriage card combined with the Thief card shows that my sister hope to be able to take away either man from their marriage and that for her to move forward and build a home/marriage with either one of them (Combination of House card and Journey card).
3rd Row: The inquirer’s destination: Looks like she will be disappointed because combination of Sweetheart card and Falseness card show that my sister is living a lie and believing in something impossible. She is surrounded by falseness, either she’s lying to herself or she will be lied to with false promises. Looks like she will not be married within 6 months after her divorce. – THIS IS THE POSSIBILITIES